There's this drama series i watched this day and i remember it says '' the expression on your face doesn't always matches your heart '' ! I quietly knocking my head as my heart yelling '' hell yes '' !!! ( * excuse my language * ) Can't agree more ! i always refer those expression as the transparent multi fake mask that we have within us , the happy face , excited face , touched face etc .
In instant , while you're sad '' nope , i'm cool i'm fine mask '' ! While you're hurt '' nah , i don't really care mask '' ! etc . In other word , pretending to be happy , fine , committed , excited etc . But ... are you really feeling happy ? Are you really fine ?
Before that , i have to say , faking your personality and wearing a fake mask is a whole lots of different story , fake personality will roughly be a change of personality depending situation or people which involve beneficial etc , fake mask will be hiding & pretending your emotion or facial expression which is totally opposite from heart for situation / people , in other word fake mask is a perfectly repackaged emotion and facial expression .
Back again , somehow and unfortunately , this fake mask turns to a '' common thing '' in the society this day , creating the unbreakable visual appearance , setting the wall up high guarding in with this thick bulletproof vest , in order to protect ourself , withstand or hide in all sort of hurts & pain !
Nevertheless , they tent to choose one type of mask to disguise themselves whenever they meet someone - smile , also the often used type ! Despite how hard they're bleed battling inside they'll only allow themself to let out those real emotion when they're totally ALONE or the worse ... probably NEVER !
Showing only the best of them , pretending their toughness , happiness etc doing the best of them to carefully hide in every single piece of negative emotion from others , in order to prevent themselves from getting hurt or doing it for the others sake ! Others sake ? In instant , to make others feel relief , comfortable etc , others feeling tent to be the primary consideration of them instead of themself !
There might a thousand reason hidden behind those fake mask but mostly it start with this word '' afraid '' ! Afraid of people judgement , afraid of getting hurts , afraid it might bother or troubled someone , afraid someone will see through you etc ...
In other word , the others see emotion as '' emotion '' but for them is just purely '' facial expression '' to present to someone else ! However , the continuously wearing fake mask would eventually leads to circumstance where you might even starts questioning yourself by the authentic of your own emotion . But the truth is , sometimes they do get hurts even more by putting this fake mask on .
the one who say '' is okay '' and doesn't care much , sometime is the one who care the most
'' So who should we actually believe ? '' the next dialog from the drama series . Sometime , we probably can't truly understand well since we didn't been through what they had that triggered this fake mask mode or even spot the existing of fake mask in them .
Other that saying who should we believe , it will be better to put it this way '' care if you really care '' , everyone have the hidden story inside of them , by communicating , caring & spending time with them , is one of the way to break through those wall but remember , breaking in by force will only inverse things up !
You' ll never know sometime your small words & gesture might bring a big comfort to them .
Recommended song : fake love - Bts
It's okay - Btob
Honestly , is okay to cry ! Is okay to admit you're sad ! Is okay to admit you're not fine about it ! This DOESN'T meant you're admitting being weak , but letting you're real emotion out is the way that really makes you grow stronger & tougher , laugh while you're happy , cry it out while you're feeling sad . And , is really okay to step out from the fake mask mode and take a deep breath sometime !
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Michel Chloey
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XOXO , Dolfhion .
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