Why don't you do this ? Why don't you try ? Why don't be like him/ her etc ? The question that start with '' why don't you... '' always make me taken a back , resent them when it comes to '' judgment WITHOUT knowing facts '' . To be honest , the word that's seem like a question asked but it seem more like a '' ironic advice'' and ''comment'' to me in such situation . If you ask is it a good thing NO ! A definite firm answer from me , NO ! Why ? Vise versa , why do you think i do this ? why do you think i didn't try ? or why did you think i never tried my best to be like him / her etc ? Do ever thought of this before asking ?
Judging without knowing the facts only hurts someone to be really frank ! In instant , people might try their best , they might give it all but just because you THOUGHT they didn't but blasting you piece of '' advice '' jumping into conclusion , you might just hurt someone feeling '' unintentionally '' by not putting yourself in other shoes at first but giving an direct '' advise '' of yours ! It doesn't only hurt someone feelings but stealing and crushing they self esteem and even causing doubt to themselves later onward , and yes , that's how severe consequences that can be cause by a reckless '' advise '' !
Imagine if you work extremely hard but people keep criticizing you saying what did you even do , do you even try ! how do you feel ? will you feel discourage to take another try onward ? sad ? anger ? despair ? That's judging without knowing the fact ! Rather that a reckless '' advice '' why don't takes some time listen / understanding situation giving out an helpful advise ? It truly makes a different ! After all, advice should always be a guide help not ruthless sting and we don't want our good intention to turn bad don't we ?
Don't let your emotion / feeling conquered by predators who judge without knowing facts , don't ever doubt the facts that you given the best of yourself just because someone reckless elevation or judgement saying you didn't ! Visible result or not you can't denied the fact YOU TRIED ! Keep yourself up ! Don't lost the confidence for trying !
Song recommend : Human - Christina Perri
I saw this quote words somewhere but barely remembering where , but it says '' human are like flower , treat them with gentle and care '' , why ? cause after all we are all just human !
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Michel Chloey
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XOXO , Dolfhion .
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